Thomas William Bruner, 70, formerly of New York, died at his home in Burlington on Saturday, July 4, 2026.
Born on May 13, 1956, in Burlington, Iowa, Tom was the son of William Clay and Shirley Ann Hofmann Bruner.
Tom graduated from Burlington High School in 1974 and went on to build a career as a flight steward, a profession that perfectly suited his adventurous spirit and love of people. His work allowed him to travel the world, experience different cultures, and form friendships wherever life took him. Whether through a handwritten note, a phone call, or a visit home, Tom delighted in sharing stories from his travels, bringing distant places to life for those he loved.
Tom never met a stranger. Blessed with a warm heart, a welcoming spirit, and an extraordinary gift for making people feel at home, he devoted his life to cultivating connections and caring for others. His homes in both New York and Iowa became gathering places where family and friends were welcomed with open arms, delicious meals, lively conversation, and plenty of laughter. Tom believed there was always room for one more at the table or at his home.
Family and friends who became family were at the center of Tom's life. He knew everyone’s names, birthdates and the details of their lives-their interests, accomplishments, challenges, and dreams. He celebrated milestones, checked in often, and made each person feel seen and valued. His relationships were nurtured with intention, kindness, and genuine interest in others.
Although Burlington was always home, Tom embraced New York City as part of his identity. He loved its energy, diversity, and endless possibilities, and nothing brought him more joy than sharing "his city" with visiting family and friends. He knew its neighborhoods, streets, and hidden gems from years spent exploring by bicycle and roller blades. An avid swimmer, Tom taught lessons at the YMCA in New York City, sharing his skills and encouraging confidence in countless students. He loved music, was always ready to dance, and approached life with enthusiasm and joy.
Tom was passionate about family history, decorating, and creating beautiful spaces where people loved to be. His servant's heart was reflected in everything he did. He found purpose in caring for others, often putting their needs before his own and giving generously of his time, energy, and compassion.
In 2021, Tom fulfilled a lifelong dream when he became a foster parent. Providing respite care and opening his home to children in need became one of the most meaningful chapters of his life. Becoming a father to his beloved son, Cooper, was his greatest blessing and deepest source of pride. The love he shared with Cooper brought him immeasurable happiness, and fatherhood became the role he cherished above all others.
Tom's life was a testament to the power of kindness, hospitality, fun and unconditional love. He leaves behind a legacy of friendship, generosity, and countless memories that will continue to warm the hearts of everyone fortunate enough to know and love him.
Survivors include his son, Cooper Vantiger of Burlington; his sister, Kathy Cagni of Hobe Sound, Florida; nephew, McKenzie Cagni; niece, Alexanne Cagni; and many beloved aunts, uncles, cousins, and dear friends.
He was preceded in death by his parents; his brother, David Bruner; and his infant sister, Beth Ann.
Visitation will be from 1:00 PM until 2:00 PM, Friday, July 17, 2026 at Prugh Funeral Service, 3940 Division Street.
The funeral service for Tom will be 2:00 PM Friday, July 17, 2026, at Prugh Funeral Service, 3940 Division Street. Burial will be in Aspen Grove Cemetery.
If you were lucky enough to know Tom, you experienced his inclusive gift of welcome. Whether around his dinner table, on a walk through New York City, or in a simple phone call, he had a way of making you feel that you mattered-and that is a gift his family and friends will carry with them forever.